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Finding yourself some inner peace – what is mindfulness anyway?

When I used to hear the word mindfulness, I would think about sitting on the floor cross-legged in a circle with other people, peeping through my closed eyes to see if everyone else was actually following what we were supposed to be doing or whether it was just me.

This absolutely does not appeal to me – but I recognise that for some this brings a sense of connection, inner peace, and a window of calm in what is otherwise a hectic world.

So – what is mindfulness? 

In my opinion it is doing something that creates a distraction from all the inner chatter of my mind.  The overthinking about a conversation I had yesterday, the worry as to why a friend hasn’t replied to a message, the concern that I’m not good enough at something…..the list goes on.

The distraction creates some space and relief from all that noise and can, in that space enable some time for reflection, enabling feelings to pass and can give me a sense of having an increased capacity to cope when I pick up my day again.

I believe that we all need a range of distractions that we can call upon in a variety of circumstances and depending on our mood.  For example if I’m feeling furious about something I’m unlikely to find any form of meditation successful – however a run, some boxing or something more physical is likely to provide a suitable distraction.

My go to options at home include crochet (of which I have numerous half done projects), soup making – the chopping is therapeutic, sleep, or a date with a Netflix series.

Out and about I do use the 4-7-8 breathing technique – useful if I’m feeling dysregulated in Tesco and where I can’t whip out my crochet.


Don't have much time in the day? Here are five mindfulness techniques to practise if you only have one minute.

A mental state achieved by focusing one's awareness on the present moment, while calmly acknowledging and accepting one's feelings, thoughts, and bodily sensations, used as a therapeutic technique.

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So what works for you? don’t know – well its important to find out for when you do need to find a moment or two if peace – doesn’t have to be anything fancy or complicated but my advise?  Have a selection of options that you can call upon.  Below is a list of things that will maybe provide some inspiration:

  • Breathing techniques – of which there are many to choose from here
  • Get outside – breathe some fresh air, count, clouds, find some water whether it be a river, lake or the sea – focus on what’s around you
  • Crafts are great – music, singing, knitting, needlefelt, painting
  • Writing
  • Colouring (there are some fabulous colouring books aimed at adults)
  • Reading, podcasts,
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